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| I have a man at work whom has become a good friend.. |
Anonymous |
11/14/03 |
but at work the other day confided in me about his marriage. It seems his wife is putting him off- both emotionally and sexually. He says she has even claimed that he raped her one night when he got overanxious and thought everything was okay. He was so upset that she had said that - that he called 911 and told them what had happened because she wouldn't. She didn't press charges, but now he is afraid to touch her. The problem is what he said afterwards. He said the pressure to have sex is really bad and very hard to control the urges. He said he now has very elicit dreams of him and other women having sex and it's very real to him. He casually said it's woman from work that he dreams about and everywhere that he sees women. Should I continue to be friends with him? I have been molested before (nobody knows this) and I do not know what to do about this? He has been a very nice man and a christian and has never done anything to hurt me or anyone that I know of. He has passed on his phone number to me in case I got lonely at home and just want to chat. I won't call him, since I am married myself. This is the first time he has ever confided in me. He seems to genuinely love and care about his wife- and they won't do counseling (she refuses). |
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