Clarification/Follow-up by kristenmarie on 05/26/03 2:51 pm:
I understand what you are saying and I do agree with it. However, there was a time when she brought home a guy and they were actually doing sexual stuff. They thought that I was sleeping but I was awake and heard it ALL!!! It disgusted me that she would disrespect me SOOOO much by doing that and then turn around and gett upset when I just have a guy sleep over. (We have not have sex yet any haven't even kissed in front of her.) Anyway, I only have one final on the last day (Friday) and I have lots of time to be with him and I feel that if I have the time, I should use it to be with him. Thanks for your comment and opinion.

Clarification/Follow-up by voiceguy2000 on 05/26/03 2:54 pm:
What your roommate did sounds extremely thoughtless as well. It seems unlikely that there is a way to deal with this situation that will leave everyone happy.

Some people are inconsiderate and self-absorbed, worrying only about what matters to them and oblivious to the effects of their actions on others. Your roommate may be one of these. She may not immediately grasp the parallel between how she intruded on you earlier in the year and what you are seeking to do now. She may be unaware of the degree to which her earlier actions injured you.

Perhaps her earlier actions set a precedent that you are now entitled to follow. Hard to say, because there is also an element of "two wrongs don't make a right." Your roommate is now getting a taste of how you felt earlier in the year. Perhaps that would be the basis for a productive discussion.

Clarification/Follow-up by kristenmarie on 05/26/03 3:09 pm:
What you have said about my roommate sounds so true. She has no respect for me or my things and has done nothing but screwed me over all year long. She is very self absorbed and selfish. I have no intention of appologizing or trying to work things out with her. She has crossed the line so far, I don't even want to talk to her anymore. She doesn't deserve any type of explination or appology from me. I just want to do what makes ME happy. I have never been selfish or spoiled but I feel this is one situation where I want to be and will be. If you had any idea what I have had to put up with, you would understand where I am coming from. The guy has also been giving and treating her with respect and she is nothing but rude to both of us. He understands how she feels and he still respects her disicion even after all she has said.