Clarification/Follow-up by Anonymous on 04/14/04 3:36 pm:
Dear blue
It's Jefferson and me.We erturn to our warm talks and he told me I was beautiful.I told him he was too!!!:)))
But I'm letting things flow.

Clarification/Follow-up by Anonymous on 04/16/04 2:28 am:
You're right. It doesn't work when women chase. Men may enjoy for an adventure and a boost to their egoes, but not for a long lasting relationship.Thank you.

Clarification/Follow-up by Anonymous on 04/16/04 2:41 am:
Just to add, dear blue, the same as I sENT TO PURPLE:, the day after yesterday Jefferson and I had a warm talk.He told me I was beautiful, and I told him he was handsome.He confessed me he suffered a lot with a past girlfriend who betrayed him, making him a fool and sleeping with another man.He told me it was some years ago, and he was led to a level of stress and pain that he got sick.I told him about my two main relationships that I had, with my daughter's father and with a boyfriend I had later, which lasted two years and it was fool of problems.(of course I didn't tell him the other adventures I had in the past, I know men don't like it).When I told him my daughter's father was with a date, he told me men don't get alone. I told him he seemed to be the man who get alone calmly, and after I asked him if he was alone...he didn't want to admit openly and nodded quickly, but it seems he was nervous one I asked it, because it was contradictory conecerning to a previous answer, asking if he had a jealous girlfriend and he said:so-so, not willing to talk about this matter.He said he wanted to marry, that all his friends married or are getting married. I told him he doesn't have to rush because of it.
It was a warm talk.
Just yesterday he was introspective and he didn't come to talk to me in the same way as always.
Thank you dear friend