MY HUSBAND AND I GOT MARRIED IN 1989 AND WE SEPERATED IN 1996,BACK THEN I HAD A REALLY BAD DRINKING PROBLEM.(I DON'T NOW,THANK GOD FOR THAT)WE WERE TRING TO WORK THINGS OUT UNTIL HE MET THIS WOMAN THAN THAT BLEW THE CHANCE FOR US GETTING BACK TOGETHER,BUT WE REMAIN FRIENDS,WE TALK ON THE PHONE EVERY DAY AND JUST LAST WEEK HE HAS TOLD ME THAT HE STILL LOVES ME,HE HAS TOLD HIS GIRLFRIEND ABOUT 3 OR 4 YEARS AGO THAT HE WOULD MARRY HER BUT OF COURSE THAT'S HASN'T HAPPENED AND HE HAS ALSO TOLD ME THAT HE WASN'T GOING TO MARRY HER,I KNOW THINGS AIN'T GOING SO WELL IN THAT HOUSE HOLD,NEITHER ONE OF US WOMEN HAVE ANY CHILDREN WITH HIM NOR DO WE HAVE ANY PROPERTY.I'VE MOVED OUT OF OUR HOME TOWN BECAUSE I WAS SO HEART BROKEN THAT I'VE TRIED TO TAKE MY OWN LIFE(I DON'T FEEL THAT WAY ANYMORE)SO WE DON'T SEE ONE ANOTHER,HE KEEPS ASKING ME WHEN WAS I COMING BACK(BACK TO OUR HOMETOWN)I TOLD HIM THAT I WASN'T COMING BACK,THAT I'VE MADE A HOME FOR MYSELF IN THIS NEW TOWN(I'VE LIVED HERE FOR 7 YEARS NOW)HE CAN HEAR THE CHANGE IN MY VOICE,SO HE KNOWS THAT MY LIFE HAS CHANGED FOR THE BETTER.I'VE ASKED HIM THE OTHER DAY,IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP LIKE A G/F RELATIONSHIP OR LIKE A ROOMMATE RELATIONSHIP,AND HE TOLD ME A ROOMMATE.I WAS TOLD THAT SHE WAS WAITING FOR HER SETTLEMENT TO COME IN AND THAT SHE'S MOVING OUT AND THAT SHE DOESN'T HAVE A PLACE TO STAY UNTIL THEN,SHE'S ALREADY BROKEN HIS HEART AND THE RELATIONSHIP,BY MOVING OUT ON HIM 3 DIFFERENT TIMES AND LIVED WITH 3 DIFFERENT MEN.ABOUT 4 YEARS AGO HE WENT TO THE COURT HOUSE AND HAS GOTTEN DIVORCE PAPERS,HE'S DONE THIS 5 TIMES AND 5 TIMES THOSE PAPERS HAS WENT INTO THE TRASH.CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP AND LET ME KNOW WHAT YOUR ADVICE WOULD BE,I'LL NEVER STOP LOVING HIM AND DEEP DOWN I TRUELY BELIEVE THAT HE'S STILL IN LOVE WITH ME..THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR TAKING THE TIME ON READING MY LETTER AND I HOPE THAT IT ISN'T TO LONG.GOD BLESS.... |
