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scared of my friend stiamo_bene_insieme 05/03/05
    Hi
    I have a problem and I hope there is someone here who can help me.
    The problem is that I am scared of my friend. We have known each other since kindergarten. It all began when I told him that and he is confused and doesn' get me.
    We live distant from each other and when I moved away, I tried to keep in touch with him by writing him letters. I have been writing letters for almost 8 years and he never wrote to him until last year when he sent me an email.
    I don' know why I am scared of him. Sometimes, I think that I am all over him, sending birthday cards, phone him, etc... and he never did that to me. I don' think that he even knows my birthday. Then, all of a sudden I felt "" ( I don' know if I am using the right word, maybe it' anxiety?) because when I wanted to talk to him, I couldn' do it and my heart pounded so hard and my fingers cannot dial the number.
    When I get a letter from him, I know that I am suppose to be happy and excited but I am not and I am scared of reading them. Usually I wait hours or days before I can read it. I am not suppose to feel this way, instead I should feel at ease. Is there something wrong with me? I have tried to understand this situation and this is the way I look at this issue. Because I feel scared of what he says in a letter or when I call him, it feels not right. Like I said before, I should not feel this way and be at ease with him but I can' do that. In a relationship whether it' a friendship or between a couple, I think that the indication of being "",it' a red flag. Like it' suppose to tell you something that it' not going right. Am I the only one to feel this way? I have tried this to him and he doesn' understand me.
    Could you please help me?
    Stiamo Bene Insieme

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1. Hi, It sounds like this is a friend who you are worried abo...
 05/14/05 RhinestoneExcellent or Above Average Answer
2. Hello: I have some common sense and help for you. As for yo...
 05/29/05 sunshine_rayysExcellent or Above Average Answer
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