Hi, I've been friends with this girl for quite some time, and it was quite a close friendship until one day we got into an argument.
Actually, the argument sounds really stupid and pathetic because it was just a small matter that could have been easily avoided if it wasn't for me. I got curious one day why she didn't respond to me the whole week so I started to ask her, and then she said I was blaming her and placing all the fault on her. Of course, naturally I'd try to justify myself, which I did, and unpredictably, she got mad at me and started to ignore me ever since. I didn't even try to say any words nor did I have the intention of pissing her off so badly, but I guess she took it that way and I felt so bad, cause I had so many other disasters going on in my life and then this happened.
The reason why I got curious was because, yes we did depend on one another a lot and relied on each other too much, because on average, we would send each other approximately 80 messages a day, and then we could chat at night time for about 4 to 5 hrs daily. So, it just seemed kind of weird to me that for one week, I had not even received a single message, which is why my curiousity started. To be honest, I talked to her more than I had talked to my ex-gfs when they were still with me, and she's not even my girlfriend!
Well now she says she forgives me, but I feel after a month of ignoring me, she's been a completely different person in the way she treats me now. Nowadays, we only greet one another, like "hi"s and "hello"s and then when I start to talk about something, she would not even bother replying. I really want to have this close friendship back though especially how she says that she has forgiven me, but then she doesn't even care about me anymore. I don't think giving her more time would be smart, because the longer it goes on, the less chance I have ever being friends with her again.
Please help me get her back being my close friend again.
Thanks,
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