Clarification/Follow-up by tomder55 on 06/08/07 7:18 pm:
so he signed up just so long as he did not have to fight ? why bother ?
Clarification/Follow-up by CeeBee2 on 06/08/07 7:31 pm:
One is supposed to sign up to fight?
(He has finished training in Pensacola and will be repairing Navy planes. He has been told he will remain stateside.)
Clarification/Follow-up by tomder55 on 06/08/07 7:33 pm:
btw ;most of us have migrated to askmehelp desk this week .
Clarification/Follow-up by CeeBee2 on 06/08/07 7:35 pm:
Is that where the wild parties are now? Excon is in charge of entertainment? Should I emigrate?
Clarification/Follow-up by tomder55 on 06/09/07 10:40 am:
I'm going to give it a try . There is some new faces there to exchange ideas with and it seems to be cordial and well managed.
Clarification/Follow-up by CeeBee2 on 06/09/07 6:27 pm:
I migrated over there yesterday and am pleased to see so much activity and such a wide variety of questions to answer. I've already been booed, but have been given some cheers too. Thanks for the suggestion to go there.
Clarification/Follow-up by ETWolverine on 06/11/07 1:44 pm:
I didn't miss the point about him being a non-citizen. It's in the second sentence of the final paragraph of your original post. I saw it the first time I read it. I just don't believe it to be a relevant fact to the topic, which is the fact that you believe that your friend was 'duped' into military service, while I believe he either made an educated decision or else must be lacking in intelligence. You say that he's highly intelligent, and I will asume that you are correct about that. Which means he knew EXACTLY what he was signing up for and decided to do it anyway. He wasn't tricked, lied to or cooerced against his will and knowledge into joining the US military. He chose to do it.
And considering that the majority of combat in the Middle East is taking place in deserts in countries that are mostly lacking any credible naval forces, it seems unlikely that even if he is deployed to the Middle East he will see any combat. So if he doesn't want to see combat, he made the right choice of service.
You know the Navy's first rule of combat don't you?
Call the Marines.
Elliot
Clarification/Follow-up by CeeBee2 on 06/11/07 4:56 pm:
Elliot -- No, I don't think Barlaham was duped. If anyone did research before signing up, it was he! In fact, he loves the Navy, has signed up for a fifth year, and is talking about maybe making a career out of it. He will become a citizen while serving and looks forward to "seeing the world".
He realizes he could see combat someday, in that he will be on a warship in a combat area.
He's sharp, smart, and looks real cute in his Navy blues.