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...I'm anxious	Anonymous	09/22/03
Hello.I started feeling pain on my right side which were extending to my arm. I took x rays and it was found out an irregularity in my right lung.I have dry cough. I started to take ceftriax shots and I took ast least 12 and i took a tomography which showed better a kind of mass.i took exams to tuberculosis twice and Mantoux test and they ended up negative.Now it'll be necessary a punction to find out what kind of mass is. It's not cancer, according to the doctors and I'm afraid of a surgery. I've never smoked.I had fever and sweat during the night but now I feel ok, just coughing(which is being controlled through medicines), and the pain comes and goes, but I'm taking pain killers.I'm afraid of a surgery.If you have an idea, please tell me because I'm anxious.just good perspectives, please
Clarification/Follow-up by Anonymous on 09/22/03 11:35 am: Dear bal It's me. I'm anxious.The biopsy will be tomorrow.I'm afaid of a cancerigen tumor Clarification/Follow-up by Anonymous on 09/22/03 6:29 pm: It was me who asked the first question too. But my father remembered me today that I took the contrast test to find out if it was a malign tumor and it resulted negative while I took the tomography. I've taken so many exams...My mom told me the appointment is tomorrow, but the biopsy will be scheduled. thank you dear bal Clarification/Follow-up by Anonymous on 09/22/03 11:50 pm: I hope I'm not bothering. Bad thoughts come and go.Even the absence of the other guy, who did those things with me.I don't know why, I wanted him to call me just to reassure something inside me.Concerning to the other, younger than me, he continues calling me and wants me to go out with him again.I don't feel like to at the moment.I just want to think about my life.Sorry if I'm bothering.
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bal317		09/23/03
Hey girl: No it is never a bother. To me when I have been in similar situations, when I was alone, I found myself thinking how neat it would be just to hear from the people, like this man to you, just some sort of a reply. In reality, it would just be a thought, because I realized if I ever stepped over that line again, I would be doing a great injustice to my pride. I worked for a lady, that when she knew I was filing for a divorce, she gave me the best advice, it was NEVER, no matter how hard he tries to show me he would change, buy this or that, NEVER, take him back, because as the old saying goes, a leopard never changes his spots. Now, seeing the past men I had delt with, and me not choosing to go back, she was so right, they are just recycling themselves and mistreating the ones they are with, like they did me, and guess what, they each came to me, and asked me to try with them all over, and did promise everything to the moon, it gave me great pleasure to say, NO. Also, the "big head" I get when I can walk around them, and knowing they are so unhappy with the way they had made all the wrong choices, and that I waited out until I finally ment Mr. Right. They are truely so jealous. Best of all, they know they can't come in between my hubby and me, so who do they have to blame, and it eats them up, THEMSELVES. You be strong, your life had a huge turn of events happening, and think for a moment, specially about the one that knows your not feeling well, did he or both, ever concern themselves with the fact you were at your health wise lowest and could of had devestating problems that were life threatening, and did either one, put any money towards you, like buying you a card, or sending you some flowers, or even calling without trying to get you in the sack. That show's what their intentions are and that they are only thinking of themselves. You are getting a new bill of health, now allow yourself the oppurtunity to gear yourself up so you can get out in the world your in, and be more selective, be with someone who will totally give himself to you, and make you feel like the queen you deserve to be. You are doing so well, and I know deep down inside it must feel so good to find the new and stronger acting you. Contact me anytime, it truely is never a bother. My best, bal317

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