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Abuse
Hello: I was on the Abuse site during the Askme.com days. My personal experiences have allowed me to understand both sides of the coin. There is no winners when this happens, but there is help for victims to regain their self esteem and stability. I am here to help. |
Direct Questions Asked | 27 |
Answers Given | 55 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 11hrs,11mins |
Total Points: | 730 |
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Addiction
Hello: I have had family members with addiction problems. In helping them to achieve their goals of stopping and redirecting their lives, it made me become aware of the fact, there is good addictions and bad addictions and when we over do the good it can become bad. But in all we are all only human and need to speak to someone who will not judge us for our wrong doings, but help us obtain the right steps to get through tough times for success. |
Direct Questions Asked | 0 |
Answers Given | 13 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 14hrs,15mins |
Total Points: | 485 |
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African History
Being an Afro-American, I feel this is such a rich history that has been long over due in getting it's just rewards. Bringing about the truth of this culture and less fiction is the one way to do so.
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Total Points: | 165 |
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Aviation
Hello: I have always been interested in Aviation. This is a privilage to be here. Currently, I am taking Pilot's training and with helping on the forums, it also, will be a great learning experience. I will help in anyway I can.
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Direct Questions Asked | 3 |
Answers Given | 5 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 1hrs,53mins |
Total Points: | 190 |
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Beauty
I am a Cosmetologist, who believes in helping others. I have training in all textures of hair. I follow the fashion trends and believe, we all want to look and feel our best. I am a member of the Look Good Feel Better program. |
Direct Questions Asked | 18 |
Answers Given | 40 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 8hrs,23mins |
Total Points: | 675 |
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Bereavement
Hello: I was taught at an early age of 5, about dealing with those who not only passed away, but the family/friends that they were leaving behind. I learned great respect actions are needed on both sides of the coin. In my life, I became a Nurse, not only to help, but to feel like my background would sincerely benefit. In my beliefs, I am a Christian, I believe we all have a destiny and I believe we all have a different time line for grief, we all need to be able to reach out to those that care. I will be willing to help anyone that I can. |
Direct Questions Asked | 5 |
Answers Given | 8 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 21hrs,47mins |
Total Points: | 235 |
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Christianity
I have had a strong upbringing in Religion. My belief is to say what I know, respect other's for what they know, and to not misdirect other's in any way. Christianity, specially today is needed, along with understanding of other's and definately to treat each other as we would have them treat us. bal317 |
Direct Questions Asked | 5 |
Answers Given | 1614 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 22hrs,15mins |
Total Points: | 42936 |
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Dance
Hello: I have taught classical ballet, tap and modern jazz and true egyptian dance(belly dance). Having reached the media with hosted programs at country clubs and my own tv shows. Dance is a beautiful art, that I feel no matter who you are, we all have our own beat and can associate in public to music. So no one should be afraid to test the waters on the dance floor. |
Direct Questions Asked | 2 |
Answers Given | 4 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 11hrs,35mins |
Total Points: | 190 |
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Death & Dying
Hello: I have had the pleasant experience in dealing with the dying, by being in the field of Nursing. Also, since the age of 5, I have been at the bedside of very close family friends and family members as they needed care until they passed. Having delt with many religions and people, I have learned how too deal with many different types of situations and concerns. I hope too be of some help here. |
Direct Questions Asked | 2 |
Answers Given | 6 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 20hrs,38mins |
Total Points: | 275 |
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Disabilities
I am a Professional Nurse. Experiences in working with my daughter who is a Quad. for over 10 years. I know from many trying times, on how to seek out information in getting equipment, exercises, personal items to help one be as independent as possible, and mostly how to give total respect for others who can not fully help themselves. |
Direct Questions Asked | 5 |
Answers Given | 15 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 19hrs,02mins |
Total Points: | 315 |
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Domestic Violence
I am a survivor of Domestic Violence. I know the mental and physical trauma that this unexcepted, misbehavior does to an individual. I also am aware of the Professional help, that is now available for victims and their families. Also the courage one must regain, to help with the fear and loss of self esteem/self worth. |
Direct Questions Asked | 4 |
Answers Given | 7 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 3hrs,57mins |
Total Points: | 245 |
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Emotional Wellbeing
Hello: Within my working experiences of being a Nurse and Cosmetologist. I have handled many different situations among others who needed calm and direct information concerning the over-whelming physical and mental problems in their lifes. Also, being a parent and trying to work my way through schooling, jobs and the family schedule, helps me look back and know the steps that could have helped me better. We all need someone who we can turn to for information to help us. I would like to help, as much as I can. |
Direct Questions Asked | 132 |
Answers Given | 289 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 11hrs,23mins |
Total Points: | 3652 |
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Extra-marital Affairs
Hello: My knowledge due to my past marriages and having associates that highlightened my awareness in relationships. I crossed barriers of the hurt feelings, and on the other side the immediate happiness one has when finding someone that seems to be interested in what you have to offer. I myself can honestly say, I have never had an extra-marital affair, but the challenges that are there can be rough, and very tempting specially when the one your with does not show you attention and seeks love from someone else. People have hearts and needs and mostly understanding and respect. If I can be of help, I will certainly try. |
Direct Questions Asked | 2 |
Answers Given | 8 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 9hrs,37mins |
Total Points: | 207 |
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Hair Care
Hello: I am a license Cosmetologist. What I like is that I have training in all textures of hair for all cultures. I own and operate my own beauty salon. I will enjoy assisting anyone as much as I can.
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Direct Questions Asked | 7 |
Answers Given | 33 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 21hrs,23mins |
Total Points: | 590 |
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Hypertension
I have been a Nurse for 29 yrs. . One of my terms of duty was on a reseach team for the University of Iowa Hospitals, survey of health history within a community for a longevity study pertaining to the heart. We collected data to prove we could pre-disclose certain families were capable of having heart dieseases. One of the main findings developed through constant looking at the blood pressure values. By checking blood pressures we found several individuals that fit what many would consider "norm body value", but what was hidden was elevated blood pressure, fortunately they were saved by the findings and their kidneys were not damaged along with keeping them from loosing other body functions. |
Direct Questions Asked | 4 |
Answers Given | 6 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 19hrs,30mins |
Total Points: | 225 |
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Married Couples
Marriage is one area that many of us were not prepared for, not that we did not want to be married or that we dont love the one we have chosen. But, because marriage is a committment, a give and take, learning how to accept those we are not framiliar with, and keeping our mental attitude going in a positive way. Marriage, does not mean we are owned by someone, so we do have to know, how to have our own life, and not to accept either mental or physical mistreatment. I am happily married now after 2 previous attempts. I know the meaning of blended families, which I have done successfully. |
Direct Questions Asked | 6 |
Answers Given | 12 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 7hrs,18mins |
Total Points: | 300 |
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Mental Health
Being a Professional Nurse, I understand the difficult areas others have when they try to live their lives to the fullest, without having fear they can not get proper help, or someone else who will understand, what they are going through. |
Direct Questions Asked | 2 |
Answers Given | 39 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 14hrs,59mins |
Total Points: | 1075 |
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Other Health & Fitness ...
There is nothing worse than being abused in a relationship, at the workplace, or by another person, who feels your self esteem and self worth, is something to toy with. I know the way to seek help, with full understanding of why many fear, tearing away from the abuser. |
Direct Questions Asked | 9 |
Answers Given | 68 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 8hrs,20mins |
Total Points: | 1360 |
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Other People & Relationships ...
Hello: I feel from my past experiences in different situations that I can pass along information to help. I have also worked out in my community and have become aware of many stereo types, and difficult problems people come across. |
Direct Questions Asked | 14 |
Answers Given | 69 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 18hrs,05mins |
Total Points: | 1188 |
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Other Society & Culture ...
I have lived in unusual situations being ethnic, I have learned to adjust and readjust my cultural skills. I feel I have learned hard lessons and many times it was not easy, but I have survivied. I know the mental disappointments of feeling trapped and disgusted when you have the talent, skills, education and all a job requires, but because of your skin color you don't get the position, and if you do get the job, the hoops you have to jump through, just to survive. |
Direct Questions Asked | 18 |
Answers Given | 54 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 6hrs,46mins |
Total Points: | 975 |
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Relationships
I would like to be of assistance with a listening ear and hopefully some helpful suggestions. Relationships are wonderful and most of us go into a relationship with the best intentions, however, for whatever reason things change. Then a lost feeling or uncontrolled feelings occur. That's where we all need help. |
Direct Questions Asked | 60 |
Answers Given | 260 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 0hrs,06mins |
Total Points: | 4285 |
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Sex
Hello: Sex, is a wonderful pleasure that many of us enjoy. We all have different views to this pleasure, and many of us want to improve or explore different avenues. Some of us wonder about how to accomplish satisfaction or why we did not satisfy the other person. In any case, I would like to assist those that I can, as I have studied sexual habits of humans within some of my work. |
Direct Questions Asked | 17 |
Answers Given | 30 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 20hrs,27mins |
Total Points: | 307 |
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Sexuality
Hello: I believe sex is a wonderful act human beings can accomplish. Also, many get out of this act what they hoped for, and unfortunately many don't. Having an open mind, and willingness to help yourself, one can regain confidence and happiness in whatever you try. Many of us don't have the oppurtunity to choose what happens to us and we tend to be hard on ourselves for what happens in both positive and specially negative things. That's when you need someone to listen to you and not judge. I will attempt to help as much as I can. |
Direct Questions Asked | 7 |
Answers Given | 85 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 13hrs,02mins |
Total Points: | 1696 |
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Spirituality
Having had many problems in life, I have found by reading and understanding many passages in the Bible helps. But, I feel we have to know how to adjust that information with our today's society and structure. I enjoy people, and feel we all need to help those that can not spiritually help themselves. |
Direct Questions Asked | 1 |
Answers Given | 195 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 5hrs,53mins |
Total Points: | 5079 |
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Weddings
I love Wedding preparations. Being a Cosmetologist, and Floral Designer, I know how making that special day, is the day you want to remember as Special. Not only in memory but in the pictures that you take, the music that you play, and the full Wedding party assembly. I will do my best to fully assist you. |
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Answers Given | 2 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 19hrs,07mins |
Total Points: | 215 |
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Weight Loss
Hello: I have been on both sides of the "scales".. It is a very difficult position that takes alot of calm, attitude and time to achieve results. I will offer much support. I have been through alot of different trendy and not so trendy diets, just to figure out I do not want to eat special foods and prepare seperate meals for myself and my family. So, in joining TOPS- Taking Off Pounds Sensibly, where I not only lost weight, I was the President of our Chapter, I found we are humans and can eat what we want, it's all about daily caloric intake. I also found that we all have choices, and whatever diet a person chooses, they should not be blamed or made fun of. Diets to me work if a person does not cause their bodies harm. Also, one has to accept themselves no matter how they look, then when they want to change their appearance don't allow yourself to think that unless you look like your neighbor you are unworthy, because you are a product of God, and are worth every ounce of Gold. |
Direct Questions Asked | 6 |
Answers Given | 13 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 12hrs,24mins |
Total Points: | 320 |
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Women's Health
As a Woman I can associate with the many difficulties one can be going through mentally and physically. As a Nurse, I have had the oppurtunities to actually get involved with many medical cases and know which medical area to contact. As a Cosmetologist, I know we all want to be on common ground with our peers, that means learning how to be accepted without looking as tho, we are having medical problems, and that is also why my Salon, T.M.L.'s is associated with the Look Good Feel Better, program. I would like to be able to share any information that would benefit others. |
Direct Questions Asked | 17 |
Answers Given | 114 |
Public FAQs Posted | 0 |
Avg. Response Time | 18hrs,51mins |
Total Points: | 2496 |
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